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Udochi's avatar

It feels like you got a glimpse into my heart and helped me articulate what I couldn’t. I call this phenomenon “moral solidarity”. It’s a code that’s as part of me as my skin is and I’ve never not applied it to people I love. But some events this week has me wondering if it’s time to dump it or be more discerning.

I too, think it’s beyond reasonable to desire some of what you give in return but why does it feel unfair to ask my friends to reciprocate in the same way?

Anyway, I’m happy to learn I’m not alone in this. Thank you for sharing.

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NaiAsh's avatar

This was an awesome read. one that requires multiple. Very Very deep and interesting. makes me scatter in my archives of emotions!

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