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Darielle C's avatar

Nneka, loved the video! Thank you for inviting us to take a moment to pause and do some reflecting. I’m actually going to journal and reflect on this question more before I sleep tonight. What initially comes to mind for me is: be patient, you are right on time. I’m going through a career pivot and in the midst of that, a shedding of identities and outgrowing things. The journey has been challenging. My patience wavers and I get annoyed and frustrated. I would tell my little self that change and growth can sometimes feel painful and confusing, but it’s worth it. To be the person you were created to be, it’s worth it. To be in alignment, it’s worth it. Additionally, I would tell my younger self to remember that, “just because you don’t know where you’re going, doesn’t mean you’re headed in the wrong direction….the path becomes more clear as you walk it”. These are words by the lovely Iya Ehime Ora 🤎 And they’ve been a great source of comfort on my current path.

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Joyce Nalubega's avatar

Thank you so much for this Nneka♥️🥹.

Personally, I’d tell my younger self (especially my teenage self) -I’m currently 23-that it gets better with God and time. She walks into seasons of greatness and endless blessings. And therefore she has to practice discipline and gratitude so that she doesn’t lose everything.

I’d also tell her to prepare to love herself more and put herself first. She has spent many years putting others on a pedestal but this year, she works on prioritizing herself.

I’d tell her that regardless of all the self improvement, it’s okay to take a breather and rest. That rest is not something bad.

Lastly, I’d tell her that life gets easier but that doesn’t mean that there’s no difficulty whatsoever. She has to focus way less on the negative things and remember to cherish the good.

Can’t wait for letter 2.

Stay blessed ✨

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